The Stocks of Life

LIfe is like playing the stock market----HIGH RISK, HIGH GAIN. So if you intend to aim BIG in life, you need to: (1) study harder than everyone else in school in order to get employed to the top 100 company; (2) do the needed leg work and give VALUE to all the tasks you are given to climb up the corporate ladder.

Of course, like the stock market, NOTHING IS GUARANTEED. Bottomline is that you are willing to do the job that needed to be done and do it with EXCELLENCE all the time. Eventually, everything will fall into place. If it does not, then comfort yourself that the WIN is in the effort.

Lessons Learned from the book "Unbroken" by Laura Hillenbrand

I have just gotten back to reading books and after a marathon of Tom Clancy novels (from "Teeth of the Tiger" to "Command Authority"), I decided to go with something inspirational.  

I have read Laura Hillenbrand's "Seabiscuit: An American Legend" and found myself moved to write a blog about the lessons learned from a champion race horse.  So I guess it is no wonder that I'm now writing about another non-fiction from Ms. Hillenbrand, this time about the life story of Olympic long distance runner Louie Zamperini entitled "Unbroken:  A World War II Story of Survival, Resiliance, and Redemption".

While Louie Zamperini's rise to fame as an athlete is a true inspiration in itself, his survival from a plane crash at sea as a bombardier for the US Air Force 372nd Bombardment Squadron and 370th Bombardment Group during World War II and his subsequent survival under brutal conditions as a POW at the hands of the Japanese (I have also seen the movie UNBROKEN and found it tame in comparison to the detailed abuse that he endured in the book.) is a reminder that we may not see a physical God, He is always with us in times of need. 

What we call LUCK or COINCIDENCE is God at work anonymously.  Imagine being seating ducks on a floating raft as a Japanese plane strafes you in two passes---the raft is riddled with bullet holes--- and yet no one is hit by a single bullet;  or, have an albatross land on your raft in the middle of the ocean when you were dying of hunger; or, when the rain pours as you are dying of thirst.  God always answers our call for help.  The response may not be as what we desire but He will not abandon us.  

Living life is not meant to be a walk in the park.  Challenges will always come our way.  Each one of us have our own problems to go up against and overcome.  Like in the making of a durable sword, the higher the temperature that it is forged in, the stronger the steel become.  God is our blacksmith and he gives us challenges to strengthen us as we go through life.  

This is the reason why whenever I pray I also thank God for all the challenges that come my way.  May it be professional (like a problematic project and all the difficult people that come with it), personal, or financial---going through all these experiences makes me a better and wiser person.  That is my conviction.

After the war, Louis Zamperini became somewhat of a celebrity.  Unfortunately, he suffered from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and with no real support group during that time, he succumbed to alcolohism and depression.  I believe that the reason for this was that Louis forgot a promise he made to God as he prayed for help during his 47 days adrift in the Pacific Ocean.  He said that if God saved him, he will devote his life in His service. Louis' plight with PTSD was God reminding him of that promise.  With civilization already far beyond the time of Moses, God can no longer afford to burn bushes to communicate.

Everything happens for a reason. It can be a nudge from God or a rude awakening.  We just need to open our hearts and our mind to understand what God wants us to do and where to go.

Katrina Halili is Back!

After giving birth last 2012, Katrina is back on the cover of FHM Philippines to remind the testosterone nation what we missed on!

Lucky Billy C.

Colleen Garcia as we've never seen her before!

Billy Crawford is definitely one happy camper this New Year!

FHM Ladies Confession Volume 8 2014

My Advise for a Long and Lasting Relationship

1.  No matter your common ground NOT to get married---ASK HER ANYWAY.

2.  Continue to court and flirt with her even after you're married.

3.  Know her bad side and stay clear of it like a plague!

4.  Contradict her only if you have an iron clad defense for your position; otherwise, SHUT UP.

5.  Be sensitive to the needs of your partner---PROVIDE for her unspoken needs.

6.  Correlative to #1 and #5:  MAYBE, IKAW NA ANG BAHALA, and EWAN KO, may actually mean YES---make an effort to know the difference (facial expression, verbal intonation, and body language is key).

7.  When she says NO---take it at face value (especially if you're asking permission to go out with the guys).

8.  Correlative to #7:  If you decide to go against her NO, make sure you bring her a present that would melt her heart into forgiving you.  

     Note:  This may only be applicable to the RICH types; otherwise, NEVER attempt to do this.

9.  Make an effort to make her laugh.

10.  Always tell her how beautiful she is.  

11.  If you can't do any the above mentioned advise or if you see that your better half does not appreciate this effort---I suggest you get yourself a new partner.

Megan Young for Rogue Philippines December 2014